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Books for Boys: Summer Reading Edition

As we finish up this first week of summer, we’ve cleaned out the backpacks, transitioned all the clothes to shorts and t-shirts, and gotten the pool pass.  We’re ready for the sun and a bit more relaxed rhythm to our days.  This is the perfect time of year to rekindle or even introduce a love of reading in the heart of your boys!  Being transported to new worlds, learning new skills, and getting lost in the beauty of story is one of the best gifts you can ever give and we’ve got some great ideas and recommendations for your summer reading journey!

Please keep in mind as you read through these suggestions and book ideas that selecting appropriate reading material for your children is a highly subjective and child-specific process.  Please review each and every item of reading material you bring into your home before passing it along to your kids.

We're featuring a list of ideas and book recommendations for your summer reading journey with your boys!

Journey Through a Summer Reading Program

Check with your local library and see if they offer a special program to encourage reading during the summer months!  Often, kids receive special treats and coupons for local restaurants and activities as incentives to complete their hourly reading goals!  If your library doesn’t offer this kind of program, create your own (check out this fun printable set) or hook up with something similar online!  For example, PBS Kids and Pottery Barn Kids have teamed up to offer a summer reading challenge with materials you can print off and storytimes at local stores!

Build New Skills through Books

If your boys begin to complain of boredom this summer, have a few tricks up your sleeve ahead of time to introduce a new experience or skill.  Pick up some kid-friendly cookbooks and encourage your boys to try out a new recipe and serve the rest of the family once a week!  Or have Dad pick up a DIY book with age-appropriate projects to work through on the weekends!  Or head to the non-fiction section of the library and get some books on animals, nature, weather, and science experiments and send the boys outside to explore and create!  In my family, we LOVE the Crinkleroot series, the Sandbox Scientist, and Camp Out! The Ultimate Kids’ Guide.

Encourage a Sense of Literary Wonder

Look for small ways to make the world of reading a magical place!  Find space in your home to build a reading nook or perhaps start a Friday Reading Fort tradition!  Move beyond the stories your boys love and investigate the lives and passions of the authors who wrote them!  Introduce them to good poetry and encourage them to write some of their own and hold a Family Poetry Reading!  See if your library has some of these “big books” to explore!  Surprise your boy by collecting a set of books on their favorite subject or introduce a new one you know they will fall in love with!  You could search for all the Star Wars books you can find, or get the ball rolling on a Titanic or weird sea creature obsession, or gather a variety of fiction and non-fiction pieces on castles and knights!  The possibilities are endless!

Integrate Books and Reading into Every Day Activities

We’re all good at packing up a small bag of toys, coloring supplies, and stuffed animals for trips and playdates — don’t forget to pack new books or your latest library find!  You can even work on good listening skills with your boys by incorporating audiobooks in the car – check out last months’ Books for Boys post for some great ideas!  Start another fun tradition by reading chapter books as a family each night!  Think through the books you loved as a child and if they are age-appropriate, begin working those into your summer nighttime routine!  We love The Boxcar Children, anything by C.S. Lewis (Chronicles of Narnia for the younger crowd and The Space Trilogy for teens), Nate the Great, The Redwall series, The Littles, The Hardy Boys, The Adventures of Flat Stanley, The Wings of Dawn series, etc.

Instill a Love for the Library

We’ve started early with our boys and take 2-3 trips to the library each week!  To them, the library is just as exciting as a visit to our local zoo, pool, or park!  Perhaps this is the summer you get library cards for your boys!  Give them some responsibility and put them in charge of knowing due dates and paying fines for late materials!  Check out the events being held at your local library as well — weekly storytimes, special theme days, and concerts, movies, and book signings are typically part of the summer calendar!  And if you live in an area that has a larger library system, be sure to take special trips to other libraries or “the main” downtown library for a new literary adventure!  We recently discovered a older library in a neighboring town that has a Story Garden themed children’s area that is still within our larger library system, so we can still check out books there!  Additionally, you can expand their access to books by linking arms with your neighbors and friends to create a small “Friend’s Library” – let them name their library system, create materials to “check out” books, and plan a rotating playdate afternoon where friends visit and get to take home 1-2 books from their friends’ selection!  If you want more ideas for specific books to introduce to your boys this summer, check out this great list from The Story Warren (thanks, Kris for the heads up)!

What books are on your  summer reading list?  Any other ideas to add to ours!

 

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About Alle

Most people run on food, sleep + strong coffee to get through their day. We're pretty sure Alle's energy comes from pure shots of creativity(although, she'd never turn down your offer for a Coke)! Her heart is fullest when she is being an image-bearer of the Ultimate Creator with her design work, writing, + music. Her day-to-day is filled with old children's books, large doses of refrigerator art, life-giving music + the world's best cuddles from her two favorite little people, Augustine + Caedmon. She prays that by infusing her messy-but-beautiful nest with worship + creativity, they too will learn to become followers of the King. With a passion to see the online conversation filled with the redemptive work of Jesus, Alle has partnered with her husband, Nate at Finding Eden where they document their creative journey as brand builders, blog designers, + story crafters for bloggers, ministries, + creativepreneurs.

Kids Say The Darnedest Things (Friday Funny 6/7)

Boys Say The Darnedest Things

 

One of the things that I wasn’t prepared for when having kids is how hilarious they are. Seriously. Like, live-in little comedians. It’s one of the many things that helps balance out the crazy in these stretched-thin days and years of parenting. Here are a few of the amusing things my kids have said this month.

 

 

Nine Year Old: I was coughing at church but no one questioned me.

{ I guess that’s cool?}

 

Me: Papa liked the old tractors in the parade.

Seven Year Old: Oh, because he’s old?

{Aren’t we all?}

 

Five Year Old: Mom wouldn’t it be scary if a guy came up to you trying to give you candy and then . . . a bat flew up in your face?

{Not the stranger danger I had in mind . . . }

 

Sometimes I feel pretty rich.

 

Five Year Old: Mom, you know of course, grandparents don’t have grandparents.

Me: Well, they do, but they’ve probably died already.

Him: Oh. No wonder I never see my grandparent’s grandparents.

{It’s the circle of life.}

 

Five Year Old: Mom, I think the more older you get the more bad things invade your body.

{Truer words were never spoken.}

 

 What funny thing has your kiddo said recently?

 

Join us every Friday as we laugh at the funny things boys say, and do. If you have funny boys (and let’s face it, who doesn’t), then write up a post about the things that make you laugh and link it up below so we can visit your site and laugh with you on this path of raising boys.

Friday Funnies



About Jessica Bowman

Jessica is the mother of four children whom she affectionately refers to as "The Wild Things". She desires to help other mothers learn to gently embrace the rumpus and develop lasting relationships with their children.

Birds and Bees. Oh, Help Me, Please? {part 1}

Y’all. I’m over-the-moon excited to be able to share someone who truly is about to make your life easier (and more importantly, your child’s life better). Mary Flo Ridley will be joining us here for a multi-part series at the MOB Society sharing her simple, natural approach to discussing sex with our children (I mean even just typing that word out made me pause for a second). 

As unbelievable as it sounds, after hearing Mary Flo speak one time I felt fully equipped to handle the topic of sex with my boys. That’s the key with her system. Being prepared ahead of time for when the questions come so you can be the expert. So your children come to you for advice or information before going to a friend or before believing the messages thrown at them daily.

Without further ado…Here is Mary Flo:  

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Have you gotten the questions yet? You know, those heart-stopping questions:

”Mommy, how does the baby get out?” or “How did that baby get inside of you?”

Your child may be 4 or 5 or 7 and you wonder how to answer, and how much to reveal. This is a time in their life when they are naturally curious, and it’s an opportunity for you to begin conversations with them on the subject of sex. I help parents prepare to capture these teachable moments with five simple steps:

Step 1: YOUR  MESSAGE

The first step does not involve your children, but it is the most important step.

You need to answer this question:

“In light of God’s word, what message am I sending to my children about sex?”

What is the main thing you want your children to know about sex?

Most parents would agree that the messages of TV and movies are NOT the messages they hope their children adopt for their own, as those are confusing, even disturbing messages. So what IS the Biblical, positive, healthy message you would like your children to have? I suggest you take some time to consider this very carefully.

For reading…go to Genesis 1:26-31 and then Genesis 2:24-25.

Can you believe it? Right out of the box…first chapters in His word, God gives us the simple and beautiful truth of sexuality and what His purposes are.

What He is not embarrassed to express in His word…we should not shy away from in our parenting. Where does the shame come from? We’ll deal with that later…for now, let’s consider the joy of this parenting task. YOU…not porn, not the internet, but YOU get the privilege of giving your child their first impression of what this is all about.

It can seem overwhelming…so let’s just keep it to our first step.

What is YOUR MESSAGE in light of GOD’S MESSAGE?

What expectations and hopes do you have for your children? What will their image of sex be as a result of growing up in your home? This is quite personal, and consequently the messages will vary to some degree from family to family. But the important thing is that you are confident that your message reflects your values, and what you truly believe God would have you communicate to your children.  After you have taken some time to think about this, reduce those thoughts into one sentence.

Here are a few sample messages:

“Sex is a gift from God for marriage.”

“God made sex to be an intimate act of love that can lead to children, and He made it for marriage”

“Sex was designed by God for the purpose of loving oneness in marriage and for children”

“Sex is like that electrical plug over there…you touch it, you die!”….I was just kidding on that last one.

You will find that developing a clear message will give you much more confidence to speak to your children, because you WANT them to get this specific impression and it’s a positive healthy message that comes from the people who love them the most. YOU!

You may not necessarily announce your message to your young children just yet, but as you will come to see, your conversations will reflect this message.

The more you excited you are about this message, the less reluctant you will be to talk to your children…and that’s a very very good thing!

-Mary Flo

So, our first step in learning to talk with our boys about sex is to figure out our message. Whew. I think we can do this moms! 

After you spend some time in His word and reflecting, we would love to know: What is your message?

**As always, please be respectful of one another’s comments. This is definitely a touchy subject and we want to encourage one another in this important job in developing healthy attitudes and behaviors about sex. Thanks y’all!**

About Heather MacFadyen

Heather has been married for 13 years and is the mother of 4 young boys. In her "free time," Heather likes to read, crochet, & write for her blog, www.GodCenteredMom.com. Her goal is to encourage other moms (and herself) to daily clothe themselves in humility by placing God in the center, so they can serve their families with joy and bring God glory.

The Mentoring Project: One Single Mom’s Story

We are so thrilled to have Kari Sowers from The Mentoring Project sharing with us here today! We wanted to give you a better idea of what The Mentoring Project does and Kari has a great story to share from one single mom’s experience with TMP!

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The Mentoring Project (TMProject) exists to rewrite the fatherless story through mentoring. We recruit, train, equip and encourage mentors to show up for at-risk and fatherless kids. We watch tiny (and massive) miracles happen day after day, much like the story captured here.

Although a mentor can never replace a father, he can be a champion of a child in a way that allows a precious young soul to spread its wings. Maybe the idea is best explained in this little video about elephants and mentors.

One of our favorite aspects of our program is our “Mentor Moments.” TMProject mentors receive exclusive invitations to TMProject Mentor Moment events that are sponsored by The Mentoring Project or TMProject’s affiliates. For example, last year, TMProject Mentor Collective members in multiple cities were invited to go back stage at Carrie Underwood concerts and to meet the band before enjoying a VIP concert package, hosted by Carrie’s guitarist Ed Eason. In the past, two National Mentor Collective members were flown to the White House to meet the President and First Lady, complements of The Mentoring Project. Sometimes Mentor Moments are wild adventures, like digging for dinosaur bones, and sometimes they are simple pleasures like pizza and ice cream.

A few days ago, The Mentoring Project received the following note from a single mom after her boys joined us for one of our Oklahoma City Mentor Moments:

Thank you for including Zeke and Justin in yesterday’s Mentor Moment. As a mom you can relate to my the heart’s desire for my children to have what they need to grow, be healthy and become everything God has created them to be. Watching Zeke and Justin grow up without being able to fulfill their legitimate need of their father/son relationship is like watching them suffer from emotional starvation that no amount of my love can ease. After yesterday, what I noticed is how very little it takes to sooth that desperate need. The Mentoring Project mentors made my boys feel like one of the guys. The simple hi-fives and the “guy comradery” goes a LONG way. Justin walked a little taller and Zeke was “open” and happy the rest of the day. I was convinced before, but my belief in what The Mentoring Project is doing is more solid than ever. I will support The Mentoring Project in any way I can for as long as you let me!

We believe that the positive voice of a mentor comes alongside a diligent mother and helps her build more confidence, practical life skills, long term perspective and fun into her son’s weekly routine.

We could write hundreds, if not thousands, of stories about mentors who have made a profound positive impact on their lives of their mentees. If you take some time reading our e-newsletters, tweets, instagram and facebook posts, you will get a small sample of the miracles we watch unfold each day. Maybe you would enjoy watching a few mentor spotlight videos like the ones available here, here and here. We hope you will join us in rewriting the fatherless story through mentoring.

This Father’s Day, we are asking those who have a great dad or mentor to honor him in a new way. Help The Mentoring Project expand our capacity to recruit, train, equip and encourage mentors to show up in the life of an at-risk or fatherless child. Watch our DONTBUYTHETIE video at www.dontbuythetie.com, give a gift to honor your dad or mentor and then tweet, post, blog, sing or facepaint #dontbuythetie!

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This is a cause we want to rally the Raising Boys community around in a big way this Father’s Day and Pure Charity is helping us make it happen!

Pure Charity FB Chat

If you are not signed up with Pure Charity yet, we are having a fun Facebook chat Thursday, June 6th at 1:30 p.m. CST to help you get set up and answer any questions you may have!

Just join us & several representatives from Pure Charity on the MOB Society Facebook page from 1:30 to 2:00 p.m. CST and you’ll find out how to register, how the Pure Charity process works, and how you can start giving to the causes you care about, like The Mentoring Project! Hope to see you there!

AND to really bring this fundraiser home in the week leading up to Father’s Day, we’ll be partying on Twitter, Thursday, June 13th at 8:00 p.m. CST with The Mentoring Project, Pure Charity, and all of you! We’ll be using the hashtag #dontbuythetie and giving away some fun prizes while all of you help reach the $25,000 goal! More details to come soon!

About Erin M.

MOB Society Marketing and Community Manager, co-founder and creator, Erin is at Home with the Boys in Nebraska after five years as an elementary music teacher. Her Savior, her doctor husband, and her three lively boys are the loves of her life – and the inspiration for her blog! She loves to cook, bake, craft & read as well, so there’s always a little of that thrown in on the blog from time to time! And through it all, you'll probably find her breaking out in random song. She tweets at @homewiththeboys.