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A Boy and a Map: Praying for the World

It started simple enough, really. A friend mentioned that her three-year-old learned the states by playing a game at mealtimes using a placemat with a map on it. Not to be outdone, I tossed a placemat in my cart the next time I was at Walmart, because I just knew that my kid could do it, too. I admit, it was pure “Momma Pride” that motivated me to toss that placemat in my cart that day, but this story is just another example of God making something beautiful of my mess.

We began to play a game placing raisins on states where grandparents lived and slowly worked our way out. My son was hooked. He loved learning where people lived. Pretty soon he was pointing to states and asking, “What’s this one called, Mommy?” My pride continued to swell. We went on this way for quite some time. Naming a state, placing a raisin, repeating a name, eating the raisin.

It wasn’t until I got a phone call one day that made me want to break the cycle and pray for the person in the purple state in the West that things changed. Hands held in a circle and heads bowed over our plates, we changed the map game that day. And the next. And the day after that. Pretty soon, we were choosing a state to cover with prayer instead of a raisin.

vintage globe

photo credit: sillyeaglebooks

We traded in our USA map for the globe: Ethiopia where we’re adopting from, Mercy House in Kenya, Dominican Republic where our Compassion sponsor child lives. We did our best to give our son something specific to pray for in each country. When my husband finished reading Radical by David Platt, he signed up for the daily prayer email from Operation World. These emails gave our family a method to picking a country to cover in prayer, much better than the spin-the-globe-and-point method we had been using.

Fast forward a year, and we’re still praying through the Nations. At times, it’s tricky to explain the situations in different countries to our son,  since he is just a few months shy of five, but the compassion for others growing in my son is worth it. He knows what it is like to be sick, so he prays for the sick. He has a sibling that is currently an orphan, so he prays for the children waiting for families. He enjoys church, so he prays for those who have to worship in secret. It’s pretty simple if you ask me.

I don’t know what God has planned for my little prayer warrior, but I know this–God took something I did that was all about me and changed it into something good for others. He molded my mess into a daily family prayer time and a heart for prayer. If He can do that out of my mess, I wonder what He can make out of our family prayer time in the heart of my son, or even the World?

Psalm 2:8–Ask of me, and I will make the nations your inheritance, and the ends of the earth your possession.

Would you like to join us in praying for the Nations?

So tell me, who will you pray for today?

10 Favorite Bedtime Books for Boys

Mixed with the smell of baby lotion, footie pajamas, and snuggles, reading with our boys before bedtime is hands-down my favorite time of the day. Piled on the couch together and soaking up the last few moments before bedtime, it’s my last chance of the day to hear their giggles and to impress God’s truth on my boys…my two favorite things. Each night, my oldest son lingers over the bedtime book basket, choosing the perfect book to bring a smile and a laugh to our day’s end. Likewise, I linger over the shelf of books I’ve handpicked to point my boys to Jesus, because I realized long ago that I needed to use every opportunity to capture their heart…bedtime books included.

It works for us, this routine of two books and a Bible story before bed, and I thought I might share a few of our most treasured reads. Since Jonah (our oldest at 4 years old) chooses our “Giggle Book” for the night, I asked him to help me with this list. Our list is split into two categories–Giggle Books & Mom’s Picks. I hope you find a few new treasures!

Giggle Books for Boys:

Zoomer is just plain fun and all-boy! The hilariously far-fetched things Zoomer does gets my son laughing the deep, belly laughs. Although his dad begs him to get ready for school, how can Zoomer make time for school with such a full schedule? He has to blow the world’s biggest bubble, build a Brontosaurus out of sand, launch a rocket ship—and that’s just the beginning! Boys will laugh out loud at the surprise ending that proves Zoomer knows best after all.

You knew I had to go there…I mean, I am a boy mom, after all! Aliens Love Underpants is perfect for bringing out the silly in your boys. When little aliens fly down to Earth, they don’t come to visit because they want to meet the Earthlings. They simply want to steal everybody’s underpants! I double-dog dare you to keep a straight face while reading this one!

How Do Dinosaurs Say Goodnight? Boys & Dinosaurs. Need I say more?

Rhyming Dust Bunnies Bug! Rug! Mug! Hug! These dust bunnies love to rhyme. Well, except for Bob. Much to the other bunnies’ frustration, Bob can never get the rhythm right. Then he saves everyone from a big, scary monster wielding—gasp!—a broom, and they all breathe a sigh of relief. But can Bob save them from the big, scary monster’s next attack? Vrrrrrroooommm . . .

Double Trouble In Walla Walla will have you doubled over in laughter from the antics of a magnificent red-head named Lulu who sets the entire school ablaze with catchy two word phrases such as higgledy-piggledy, chitter chatter when she is sent trit-trot down to the principals office for all of her fancy-schmancy yak-yak. Don’t miss this one. It’s a hoot!

Mom’s Picks:

The Boy Who Changed the World is one of our all-time favorites! This engaging story reveals the incredible truth that everything we do matters! The book is beautifully illustrated and shares the stories of Nobel Laureate Norman Borlaug, Vice President Henry Wallace, Inventor George Washington Carver, and Farmer Moses Carver. I love using this book to remind my son that he can do big things for God.

I’d Choose You is a book I pull out when it’s been a rough day around our house. This book helps encourage conversation about our bad day and reinforces that, even on our worst days, we are we are chosen and treasured (Deuteronomy 7:6) A message that even Mommy needs to hear some days!
His Mighty Warrior: A Treasure Map from Your King offers the truth about what it really means to grow up strong, brave and true. I cannot recommend this book highly enough! You know all those warrior prayers we’ve been praying? This book addresses some of the same things, but from the boy level. Take a look at the preview feature in Amazon…I promise you’ll be hooked!

Brave Young Knight tells the story of a boy in competition with other young knights to become prince of all the land. In a series of contests and competitions, the king recognizes the brave young knight as the winner, not because he was the fastest or strongest, and not because he was smarter or more cunning than the other knights. Rather, the brave young knight is the winner because he doesn’t follow the crowd, instead making decisions based on what is right and true and in accordance with his faith. The moral of the story is that the bravest young boys are those who exhibit the strongest character.

Lightkeepers: Ten Boys Complete Box Set Along the same theme as The Boy Who Changed the World (above), each book in this set takes a look at ten boys and how God changed them into men who changed the world in some way. I love the themes of each of the books and the ten boys who represent each of the themes are great role models. The individual books in the set include: Ten Boys Who Changed The World, Ten Boys Who Made A Difference, Ten Boys Who Made History, Ten Boys Who Used Their Talents, Ten Boys Who Didn’t Give In. And if you are interested, there are girl versions of all of these, too! (Note: My boys aren’t quite old enough for this set yet, but I can’t wait to read them to my boys! My set is waiting on our shelf! Recommend for Age 9 and up)

Our Favorite Bible:

I would be missing an opportunity if I didn’t share our favorite Children’s Bible!

The Jesus Storybook Bible is our absolute favorite because “every story whispers His name”.  I love how each story points back to Christ and God’s beautiful plan of redemption. The illustrations are gorgeous, too!

Moms, let’s not forget to seize every last opportunity of the day to have fun with our silly boys and to point them to Jesus. Do you have a book that should be on this list? Share it in the comments!

Empty

Empty hands

Hebrews 4:16–Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

I’ve got nothin’. Nada. Zilch. Not usually one to be at a loss for words, I find myself in new territory as I type…because, to be honest, I’m empty.

The past two months have been a whirlwind at our house–navigating life with a newborn (again) and training a big brother. It’s been down-right exhausting–physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I find myself completely spent in all realms and pleading at the foot of the throne.

Too little sleep.

Post-partum hormones running their course.

Words flung.

One little boy wondering aloud if Mommy loves him.

It’s an equation I know too well.

It’s in these empty moments that I’m reminded of my desperate need for a Savior. The perfect One–waiting to pour out grace on this empty vessel. All I have to do is ask.

Fill me up, Lord. Fill me up.

Fill me up to overflowing so I can splash your love and grace over all those closest.

In the middle of the night, when it’s just me and a nursing newborn…Fill me up.

In the early hours, when I have to force a “Good morning” from my lips…Fill me up.

As I deal with tantrums and a jealous big brother vying for my attention…Fill me up.

Fill me up, Lord. Fill me up.

Maybe you’re like me today–feeling empty and broken. He sees you. He loves you. Go to the foot of the throne. He’s waiting to fill you up. All you have to do is ask.

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Just in time…the MOB Society is teaming up with the MOD Squad (for mothers of girls) in a series called Hope for the Weary Mom. Find Brooke of the MOB Society, and Stacey of the MOD Squad sharing their hearts on Saturdays for the next couple of months. Today, Stacey opens our series for all of the weary moms.

Love Lessons From a Big Brother {adoption}

Since the beginning of our adoption journey, I’ve been amazed at how God is growing a love for “sister from afar” in our four-year-old’s heart. Something that I thought would be such an abstract concept for a little guy to grasp, has been surprisingly easy for him to understand….easier than some of the adults in our life.

He loves her already. He’s never seen her nor does she have a name known to us, but oh, this brother loves her with the fiercest of loves. It’s evident in the daily rhythm of our home…

He prays for her.

He talks about her.

He includes her in hand-drawn family portraits.

Family Portrait

And that, my friends, is a sign to me that he “gets” it…he REALLY gets it.

This love he has bubbling up inside of him, it’s a natural love. No one had to teach him how to love her. No one told him it was something he should do. It just came like a rushing river, sweeping all of us up in the current and taking us downstream.

May we all love as swiftly and as deeply…

1 Thessalonians 4:9 ~ Now concerning brotherly love you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another…