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Finding Faith Analogies in Nature

Though we live in Hawaii where we can be outside all year round, there is something special about summer that speaks to my soul.

Summer speaks STOP, and it speaks SLOW DOWN.  And it speaks LISTEN.
I embrace the days with no agenda, and no schedule.
I love to get outside and be in the fresh air JUST BECAUSE.
Whether we are picnicing in our front yard or spending a lazy day at the beach, summer is all about getting out and enjoying nature.

One of my favorite things to do during our free time out-of-doors is to look for natural faith lessons to share with my boys.  I’ve always enjoyed doing this–and now that the kids are getting a little older, it’s fun to let them practice as well.

Really, spiritual analogies are all around us–if we’re looking for them.

Summer is the PERFECT time to get outside and teach your kids about how all of creation points to our Creator. Click over to read some specific examples.

God has made it so easy to know and experience Him, just by the way He has made us and the creation we live in!   I have a lot of fun when I take time to LOOK for faith analogies, and teaching points in the every day with my family.  God becomes a little more relatable, and exciting when He comes to life in our very surroundings.

Here’s just a few examples of faith analogies that I see all around us:

**Seeing healthy trees, and talking about what the Bible means when it says that we should be  like a tree, planted by streams of water…(Jeremiah 17:7-8)

**Again, looking at trees, and discussing what kind of FRUIT they produce. Apply that one to our lives!  (Matt 12:33, 35)

**Still one more with trees–checking out a tree’s ROOTS, and discussing what it means to be rooted in Christ. (Col 2:7)

**Living near the beach, the waves are a great illustration of the Holy Spirit…who is powerful, gentle, and moving constantly, even though we cannot see or fully understand Him.  (John 3:8) (You can use Jesus’ specific analogy with the wind as well!)

**The current in the ocean can be strong, and if we are not aware of it, can pull us down stream to places we do not want to go.  Similarly, the world would like to pull us down, and if we are not alert, and purposefully following God’s ways, we can end up more like the world than like the Lord.  (Romans 12:2)

** We had some big rains here in Hawaii a while back, and our beautiful blue ocean turned an ugly brown.  The rivers that pour into it polluted the fresh water with filth from garbage, pesticides, and all kinds of gunk.  Similarly our own lives are made pure when we become a Christian, but can be “muddied up” if we let garbage in…The things we watch, the friends we spend time with, and what we involve ourselves in will affect the purity in our hearts.  It is important to protect ourselves from the gunk, and to come to the Lord often to be renewed by His cleansing. (Titus 3:5)

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This is a fun exercise to do with your kids.  See how many analogies you can come up with, and let them try a few.  Then be sure to encourage them for trying!

With Aloha,

Monica

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About Monica Swanson

Monica, her husband, and their four sons live on the North Shore of Oahu, on a hill overlooking the "seven-mile miracle"--Seven miles of the most famous surf break beaches in the world. Her family spends a lot of time at the beach, with two of her sons being competitive surfers. Monica home schools her boys, and when they aren't at the beach, they love to play at their country home, where they grow all kinds of tropical fruits. Monica's background is in health and fitness, but for now she just tries to keep her boys healthy and safe. She loves God and shares all of her family's blessings and adventures at: www.thegrommom.com (A grom is a kid who surfs/does board sports.)

Giving Boys Space: How and When to Start {MOB Talk on Facebook Tonight!}

Ever wondered how to begin giving your boy space as he grows up?

When should you begin to let him make some of his own decisions? And when you do, what kind of decisions are age-appropriate? Should you make the rules with an iron fist? Or give him some leeway to make his own choices even when he’s little?

These are all important questions, and tonight, on our MOB Society Facebook page, we’ll be hosting our monthly MOB Talk to help you find the answers you need.

Join the MOB Society tonight (6/18/13) for MOB Talk, where we'll tackle this question with our team writers and Melanie Young, mother of SIX boys (most of them grown)!

What

Facebook Chat with the MOB Society Writers

Topic

Giving Boys Space: How and When to Start

When

June 18, 2013

Where

The MOB Society Facebook page

What Time

9 PM EST

Chat Sponsor and Special Guest

Melanie Young, author of Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching, and Appreciating Boys and MOB Society team writer.

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Hal and Melanie Young have been blessed with six real boys (and two real girls).  They frequently speak on parenting, education and family policy issues, and their articles have appeared in publications in the U.S., Canada, and New Zealand. Their book, Raising Real Men, was the Christian Small Publishers Association 2011 Book of the Year, and their Raising Real Men Bootcamp has inspired countless parents of boys to stick it out when their boys (ages 9-12) start getting weird.

Do you have specific questions you’d like Melanie and our team of writers to address tonight on the subject of giving boys space? Please leave them in the comments and we’ll use as many as we can!

About Brooke McGlothlin

MOB Society Editor, writer, word-prayer, photo-maker, and boy-raiser, Brooke is continuously surprised by life. She's a OneVerse blogger, and the author of the best-selling eBooks Warrior Prayers: Praying the Word for Boys in the Areas They Need it Most, Hope for the Weary Mom: Where God Meets You in Your Mess and creator of the 21 Days of Prayer for Sons challenge.

3 Benefits to Outside Summer Fun

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He stands at the edge of the pool and waits for the throw. And it takes six tries before he catches it in mid-air.

Practice makes perfect, or so they say. And this is one thing my boys don’t mind, trying over and over until they conquer.

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Every day they’re in the pool trying some new thing until they get it right. They splash and jump. They dive and slide, play catch, and tackle each other right down.

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And isn’t this what summer is for?

To do new things in new ways.

To break the mold of routines and schedules.

To explore new places and discover new activities,

And open our minds to all that’s around us?

Summer is a time to be free. 

And what better place to feel free than outside?

To let your face feel the sun and your toes touch the grass.

To skip through sprinklers, catapult water balloons,

And eat juicy watermelon right where you are.

To smell the barbecue, and to pile the baked beans, potato salad and peach cobbler high,

Until nothing more fits on your plate.

Summer is made for being outside and there is so much fun to be had.

3 Benefits to Outside Summer Fun

1. Seeing the Beauty of God’s Creation

God’s creation is astounding and when we get outside we experience its beauty. We feel the wind on our face and the warmth on our skin. We see the trees stand tall and watch the green leaves rustle and move.

So many times we’re outside, but we fail to take in the beauty and detail all around us … the little hairs on the legs of a grasshopper, the flickering light of a firefly, the serrated edges of a leaf or the myriad of colors on the petal of a flower. When we take the time to not only go outside, but to look and see the beauty around us, our summer fun is enhanced as we appreciate God’s creation, and give thanks for it all.

2. Expending Energy

Each and every day, my boys need to expend energy–so much energy! And I’m thinking your boys are the same. And with the luxury of summer weather, there’s no better way than to spend time outside.

Swimming or running. Biking or jumping. Playing catch or kicking balls. Skateboarding, scooter-riding, or even sidewalk-chalk writing. The sky is the limit to what is possible outside. Park playdates, nature hikes, evening family walks, or outdoor games. Even major events like camping or waterslide and amusement parks, offer special outside summer fun.

3. Building Relationships & Making Memories

When we moved to our new house five years ago, the backyard was a flat area of barren dirt. We spent one year planning our yard and then three years building it, all by ourselves. Slowly but surely we made progress, until finally we finished late last spring. We did one-on-one swim lessons to get everyone water safe, and this is the first full summer we are enjoying the fun of having a pool.

Every day in the late afternoon, the kids head outside to get in. They don their suits and gather their goggles, and prepare for a fun pool adventure. They have noodles and water shooters, balls and toys. And as a group of five, they are growing closer each day from the memories they are making and the relationships they are strengthening with each other.

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This summer, may we make some intentional time to get outside for some summer fun.

May we see the beauty around us, and spend our energy making memories and building the relationships we care about most.

Praying your summer is amazing!
Jacque Watkins of  jacquewatkins.com
 

What is your favorite activity for summer fun?

 This summer, what outside plans do you have?

 

About Jacque Watkins

Connector and lover of heartfelt chats and chai tea lattes, Jacque is a relator who can’t wait to connect with you. As a Labor & Delivery RN and mama to five, she spins her days between chaotic kids and newborn cries, groping to find God’s gifts amidst them all. Over a decade ago, in the aftermath of an affair, Jacque was found by God’s mercy and changed by His grace, and because of His love, will never be the same. She is passionate about forgiveness and second chances, and wants you to know, regardless of your tragedy–no matter your brokenness or failure, God’s grace is enough. And His mercy can find even you. You can connect with Jacque on her blog Mercy Found Me, or on TwitterFacebook, or Pinterest.

One Way to Remember the Funny Things (no scrapbooking involved, pinky promise)

All kids say and do hilarious things. For every story I could share in a Friday Funnies post, you probably have an equally funny (or even  better) side-splitting tale.

Side note: While I’m sitting here writing I just got a text from my babysitter with these words from my eldest son: “Knox’s bottom smells like a McDonald’s cheeseburger” (uh, not that he would know what a McDonald’s cheeseburger smells like…). For reals. 

Since I have four funny little people running around my home, sometimes it’s hard to find time to write down the “darnedest” things they say.

So my hubby did something to make my life slightly easier (at least in the “recording memories” department…).

Side note: Happy Father’s Day, honey!!

My awesome hubby set up email accounts for each of the boys (you can do this via Gmail…free, yo!).

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Now any time a boy dresses in an embarrassing outfit or says something priceless (or both) I can snap a pic on my phone and immediately (or later while waiting at a stop light) send it with some commentary to his email account.

Imagine the rehearsal dinner gold we will have by 2030?

I have to admit even remembering to send an email can be tricky. The game changed when I added their email accounts to my contacts. Now all I have to do is type the first letter in their names and the email pops up.

Here are some winners I can share with you only because I just scrolled through their email accounts:

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(seriously. he did. and now it’s documented. forever.)

Happy Father’s Day from the MOB Society!

Thanks to all the dads who help us remember the funny moments and to my husband who gave me a practical way to keep a tangible record…unless email truly is a “fad”…then I guess I better pull out the ole scrapbook and get busy.

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About Heather MacFadyen

Heather has been married for 13 years and is the mother of 4 young boys. In her "free time," Heather likes to read, crochet, & write for her blog, www.GodCenteredMom.com. Her goal is to encourage other moms (and herself) to daily clothe themselves in humility by placing God in the center, so they can serve their families with joy and bring God glory.